Do you struggle to find time to reflect and write life stories?
Lately I’ve noticed this to be especially challenging for myself and others. There seems to be endless more pressing priorities, from work and family needs to soaking up the last long days of summer.
My brain starts imagining times in the future when I’ll have “more time”:
When summer’s over.
After a work project is done.
In retirement.
Deep down I know those are illusions. Other obligations have a way of seeping into our time no matter where we are in life.
For evidence, I can look no further than my parents’ busy schedules in retirement. Honestly, how did they ever have enough time to work full-time?!
So if “more time” will never magically appear, how do we reframe our thinking to carve out time for something we care about?
One thing that rings true for me is recognizing a lack of excitement and clarity.
Like when my work computer used to regularly freeze, I’d jump at the opportunity to pull out a sheet of paper and take 30 seconds to outline a post for my blog.
I’m disappointed to realize that that excitement has waned. And with so many interests and pursuits, I don’t always know the best way to use precious pockets of time. Too often I just pick up my phone and scroll.
I wish this was the part where I could share a simple hack to solve this problem.
But as I heard someone say recently: “The extraordinary is rooted in mundane daily actions… like eating broccoli, going to the gym, and saving money.”
(And putting pen to paper, if I may add.)
So, here are some mundane ways I’m regaining my excitement and clarity:
- Revisit my greater purpose. Why does it matter to me to preserve meaningful memories and family history?
- Have a plan. Prioritize the topics I want to explore and have them ready before I sit down to write. Have a place to compile ideas that strike at odd moments (like in a notebook or notes app).
- Take back my time. Schedule time in my calendar and stick to it — not just when I feel inspired. Eliminate outside distractions as much as possible.
- Create accountability. Find a friend or small group that will help keep me motivated and accountable.
- Make it fun again. Ignore the rules and best practices. Limit my intake from “thought leaders.” Write from the heart.
Can you relate to any of these feelings? Or have a tip that has helped you carve out time for your passions? Comment below or get in touch and let me know what’s on your mind. ♡
